Maybe i'll manage to fix this one day

src/connection.c

@@ -236,6 +236,7 @@ static int _write_socket(connection_t *cn, char *message)
 				break;
 			if (tcount - p_tcount == 0) {
 				/* no write at all, we give up */
+				cn->connected = CONN_ERROR;
 				return WRITE_ERROR;
 			}
 			p_tcount = tcount;